What does she think about it?

[paul]

Hello friends! This thread is not to be taken seriously. You can answer with a joke or anything that you want.
My question is: If you have a girlfriend (or something similar) how does she take your being fan of Alexia? Does accept it like a part of yourself?
I've experienced that when you tell a girl abou it, she finds it a little funny and nice, because it shows a kind of sensibility that is not supossed to be in a man's psicology. But when she find out that you're a HUGHE fan of Alexia; you enter everyday the forum, collect her records, etc... she doesn't like it so much, even if she pretends to accept it. Maybe it's a natural reaction .
Do you think that having a relationshp with a girl is there place for being fan of a female artist?
To tell you the truth I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend was a hughe fan of Bon Jovi, for example or this kind of artist that like the people of my age.

-And if she was a fan of Justin Timberlake?
- (!uggh¡) I would accept it the same
-And miguel Bosé?
-(¿oh my god!) I would acept it
-Sure?
-Sure
-Thank you , Paul
-thanks for nothing, Ale. When will I see you again?...

[Anthony]

;D ;D ;D.....

My boyfriends have to accept my "love" for Alexia....
But for the moments, I haven't one.... ;D
Anyway, I think that's normal that your girlfriend is bit jealous about Alexia, but she's a star and she haven't to have fears (Your girlfriend)... ;D

Il mio ragazzo dovevo accetare il mio "amore" per Alexia...
Ma per il momento, non ne ho uno... ;D
Cmq, penso che e un po normale che la tua ragazza sia gelosia di Alexia, ma Ale is a star e la tua ragazza non devo avere paura... ;D

[Tero "Il Finlandese Iceberg"]

Interesting topic. Though I don't exact idea about this. Should I say unfortunately, because of one reason. No it's the reason, which for example Anthony has ;D

Anyway I think that it depends on the girl and of course if you start to pay more attention to your favourite artist, then I think that it would become a problem.

[paul]

Of course, Tero. (now seriously) that is the thing that makes the difference. She must feel that she's the Only One, and that Alexia is just a pop star that you admire and inspires you affection.
I think that when someone really loves you there's she will accept you the way you are.
Neither I got a girlfriend now , but maybe i'll be going out wit some one new , soon (Not the BIG ONE,almost sure, but it's worth to try and see what happens ). And that's the reason why I'm asking myself all those questions.
Anthony your case is not the same, because male psicology is quite different and when you'll got a boyfriend he could even share your love for Alexia!!!.

[Loris]

io e la mia ragazza (oops! ex) siamo fans di Britney Spears, ci siamo conosciuti grazie a lei, certo però gli da fastidio quando dico qualcosa tipo "che bel culo che ha" ;D. Alexia gliel'ho fatta piacere ed ora ama tantissime sue canzoni... poi anche lei è "gnappetta" (piccola) come Alexia

[bianwatt]

paul said:

I think that when someone really loves you there's she will accept you the way you are.

Paul -- that is very well said!

Music (and musicians) has always been a very big part of my life ..... there are still bands/artists that i was into before i met my partner, who i am still a fan of today, and my partner has to accept that ..... that is my hobby/my inspiration. No, it doesn't bother my partner if it is a man or a woman 'celebrity' who i adore/collect on. My partner understands that this 'celebrity' will not knock on my door and runaway with me ..... though you never know, stranger things have happened!

And it also depends on the person, if they do not follow 'celebrities' then maybe it makes them a little harder to understand why you do ..... paul, maybe 'the threat' is that it feels almost too much like another person is in the relationship with you. (You, her and Alexia)

hmm, Gx

[paul]

Thank you, Loris and Gabbie for your opinions.
Gabbie, I agree with you; it also depends on the person; if she is keen on similar things etc...
But be sure that there is no "threat" at all
Ciao

[jcme]

lol.. the love for Alexia isnt the same thing that the love for a girl, a boy, parents, etc..

if a person cant understand that.. wow dont know what to say.. he/she is crazy haha

cheers

JC

[Nick85]

Io penso che bisogna essere consapevoli che ALexia è un personaggio dello spettacolo non dovrebbe avere paura o essere gelosa !!! altrimenti quando accendi il televisore si "spara" !!!

[numberone]

heres a cure for that problem, buy her a Alexia album and take her to a Alexia concert, make her a fan too, and then she will realise!! ;D